If memory serves (and it doesn't as reliably as it used to), Mike Johnston began writing about "boke" sometime back in the 1990s in a magazine he edited or wrote for. He coined the "bokeh" spelling for the convenience of a Western audience to convey something closer to the correct pronunciation, probably guessing that without some help Westerners would pronounce it like the soft drink "Coke". Stephanie's use of the spelling "bokeh" indicates that Johnston's variant won out over the alternatives long ago, so it's moot.
I do recall the earliest online discussions - pre-web and very early web days - about "bokeh" used Mike's spelling and usually referred to Mike's articles. This was on CompuServe, even before it was absorbed by AOL Online, and on newsgroups.
Web chatter popularized the concept even further to a new audience. Not just a new audience of online participants but a new group of photographers just getting into the hobby. Unfortunately, popularization of the term did not also carry popularization of a complete understanding of the concept behind the term. Hardly a week goes by on photo.net - or a day somewhere online - without a discussion either about or referring to bokeh, many of which tend to perpetuate myths and misunderstandings.
For example, the original poster's comment here (not to imply any criticism of your perfectly legitimate question, Stephanie)...
"I read about bokeh but could not seem to achieve it while using aperature priority mode."
...indicates that while there's plenty of talk about bokeh online, there clearly isn't enough straightforward, factual information to dispel the disinformation and jibber jabber that tends to confound every new photographer who hears about the term. Stephanie appeared to understand that bokeh was somehow related to aperture, but not that it was unrelated to the metering or exposure mode. (Again, Stephanie, not criticizing you or your question, just using this as a convenient illustration.)
Among the more popular myths are that bokeh - the perceived quality or aesthetics of the out of focus areas - is determined solely by iris shape (hence the association with aperture, although the term "iris" more closely relates to the physical mechanism and shape of the aperture; while the term aperture seems to be used most often in reference to metering and exposure). And the related myth, that bokeh describes only the out of focus blobs of light. Consequently, many of the photos displayed that purport to prove the quality of bokeh tend to show only out of focus point light sources in the dark. Round blobs of light are presumed to equal good bokeh; multi-sided blobs are presumed to equal bad bokeh. And I suppose that's fine if most of your photography involves bars, candlelight dinners and similarly romanticized settings.
But the shapes of blobs of light are only half the picture. Some photographers are more concerned about the rendering of out of focus lines and edges. Nature photos, landscapes and wildlife photos are more likely to involve these - grass, twigs, tree limbs, etc. - than blobs of light at night. And while a fast lens used wide open will typically render a nicely rounded blob of light at night, it may not necessarily deliver smooth rendering of out of focus straight lines and hard edges. My old Vivitar Series 1 70-210/2.8-4 zoom used wide open will deliver nicely rounded blobs of light, if I was interested in taking photos of out of focus blobs of light. But the bokeh is harsh for nature photos, with unpleasant doubling or multiple images around OOF edges (nisen-bokeh) of foliage, twigs, branches, grasses, etc.
And now I'm guilty of perpetuating even more jibber jabber. There's already tens of thousands of words about bokeh online.